About
Hi, I’m lorraine…
I see you; worried you’ll never feel safe again
I hear you; thinking like I did, that you’re not enough or worthy of love
I get you; scared your world is falling apart and wondering if you will ever be able to create a happy life again
I feel you; you’ve tried everything and are out of options
I see you; overwhelmed at the slightest thing, nevermind the total upheaval of your whole world
I hear you; your place is a mess, you are a mess, your life is a mess
I feel you; you’ve got to get your shit together for work, for your kids, for your love life
I get you; you can’t go on like this
And you don’t have to.
You don’t have to continue to struggle, I know I thought I did in 2020 because I stood right where you are now.
You want your life to make sense again, you want your family to thrive, not just survive, and you want to recognize yourself when you look in the mirror. You want to feel powerful again. You want to have your shit together. but you have no idea how to put the pieces back together.
You have no idea how to get there from here.
Hi again, I’m Lorraine.
I take the stress out of setting up your home, clearing your mind, and healing your heart during divorce. It doesn't matter if you divorced days or years ago or are still just considering leaving; you don't have to do this alone.
My sole purpose is to help people see that they are innately healthy, worthy, and wise. To be able to make peace with their thinking, find joy in their feelings, and create the life they’ve always wanted.
If that sounds like a long shot for you, I can relate. But I’m here to show you that if I can do it, I know you can, too.
I’m the coach for divorcing people who want to use this transition to transform their lives.
What’s my story?
I was a creative in advertising and marketing in and around NYC for over twenty years. The best results during that part of my career came from helping others find and cultivate their creativity to produce outstanding work for our clients. Now, I want to help you tap into your innate wisdom to create the life you only dream might be possible for you.
I was married for 28 years, traveled around the world through 26 countries for two years straight, and raised two adventurous kids before getting divorced in 2022. I take courses in Communications at the University of Denver and continuously study personal growth, development, and the Three Principles. I graduated from the CoActive Coaching Training Program and I survived the gut-wrenching, transformational Hoffman Process all of which have contributed to the knowledge and experience that inform my unique approach to helping you live a fulfilling life.
Some fun facts about me:
I was raised in New Jersey and have a penchant for telling it like it is and using colorful language and sarcasm
I am much happier to find used furniture or repurpose something than to buy new
I’m a low talker but a loud laugher
I was separated twice before separating in 2021 and divorcing in 2022
I play volleyball, which helps me get into the flow state
Telling stories and laughing over dinner with my kids is the best thing ever
As the general contractor for my former home, I designed and managed renovations that increased the value by $500,000
I overcame invisible, pervasive self-doubt in 2017, and while it still comes up sometimes, it no longer paralyzes me
I’ve been completely bald for ten years from Alopecia Universalis
My motto for conversations is “Go deep or go home.” I love getting to the real meaning of things and leaving the small talk to others
I am becoming all of who I am meant to be, and I’m committed to helping you become all of who you really are to feel confident and happy in your new life!
Lorraine Pasetty is the divorce coach for people who want to use this transition to transform their lives.
Through coaching, leading groups, writing, and speaking, Lorraine helps divorcing people set up their homes to be their safe havens, ditch the overwhelm to clear their minds and heal their broken hearts once and for all.
Book your complimentary consultation to see if working with me is right for you.